As I have reflected on our 25th anniversary service last Sunday and all the events that have surrounded it so far, I feel stumped for words to describe what a joy and privilege it is to be a part of this church community during this special time. As I looked around the sanctuary during the worship service, I wondered about the threads of life represented in the room. Some threads seem bold with color, while others have begun to fade ever so quietly. All are woven into our life tapestry, giving it strength, wisdom, and vitality. As a newcomer, I realize that I have not even scratched the surface of our stories of joy and sorrow and faith, each individual contribution making up the layers of our foundation.
Being a part of this church, however briefly, has felt like a homecoming. The feeling of family which seems to extend not only to those within our walls, but also to those beyond it, is as palpable as my most cherished memories of family around the thanksgiving table. This feeling of family is significant to me as it has been ten years since I have lived at home with my parents, and almost that long since I have been able to participate in the daily moments of family life like birthdays and anniversaries.
Being geographically separated from home has been a source of sadness for me at times, particularly when I have been unable to make the journey to join holiday celebrations or hospital gatherings to witness the passing of the lives of my grandparents. My calling and the responsibilities that have come with it have pushed me to travel to distant communities, and, in a way, discover family wherever I have found myself.
Sometime last winter, when I was living in Cape Town, I experienced a moment which brought this truth to my greater awareness. A dear friend from my church choir was scheduled to have a hip replacement surgery, and she and her husband had asked me to come and pray with her as she was preparing to go into the operation. The pre-operation room housed six beds, and around most of the beds, family or friends were present. Her parents were hours away in another region of the country and her siblings even further in Germany and the United States. It struck me that then, in that moment, I was family for her. She had given me the privilege of standing next to her in a most vulnerable and anxious time, a privilege that is most often reserved for a parent or child. I may not have been able to be present for my own parents as they have dealt with stress or sickness because of my geographic vicinity, but I could be there for this woman, offering myself and my love as if I were her own daughter. I pray that others will stand in for me for those whom I love that are too far for me to reach with my own touch.
This kind of offering, these kinds of relationships, are just what the church is founded upon. In our baptism, through the love of God which has been infused in us, we are able to reach out and be mothers and fathers, siblings and children to those who we meet sitting next to us in the pews, right before our eyes. It may not be what we thought we needed or wanted, but in God’s way of providing for us, it is enough. As we celebrate this 25th anniversary, we are reminded that our stories are inextricably bound with one another. Through our peaks and valleys, in our times of light and darkness, we walk with one another, offering who we are and what we have. It is manna in the wilderness-- not too much or too little, but just enough.
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