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Thursday, December 27, 2012

On the Road Again ... with Jesus: Christmas 2012


Our cat Thandi with the "first Jesus"
If you have been around the Presbyterian Church of Chestertown during Advent, then you've probably heard about the "travels of Jesus."
About 7 years ago, we started a tradition in our congregation where the carved infant Jesus from the church’s crèche scene travels to families in the church who have children (infant through elementary school age).  Each night of Advent Jesus stays in a different home. 
            Our carved Jesus (made by a member of the church) is less than 6 inches long, so he is not very big and easily fits in a plastic file box along with a copy of the Gospel of Luke, picture story books about the Nativity, and a gift for each family to keep to remember that Jesus visited their house (usually an ornament for the tree).  In Jesus’ traveling box there is also a prayer journal where each family is to write in it about Jesus’ visit with them – answering several questions they’re to discuss as a family, then sharing prayer concerns. 
The stories of his visit, the reflections the families write, the prayer concerns they share then all come back to the congregation to be shared with everyone during our Christmas Eve services.  And of course, our carved Jesus and his manger FINALLY arrive back at the church that same evening to be placed by the children in the crèche scene.
            This is not something we invented … the original idea came from www.reformedworship.org (I am sorry that I can’t find the original article! But ask me if you’re interested).  So it was not our idea, but it has become one of our most beloved Advent traditions. 
We have wonderful stories every year about Jesus and his adventures.  He’s been chewed by an enthusiastic puppy (and still has the teeth marks to show it), he’s gone shopping at the mall, arrived in mailboxes, on doorsteps and traveled in the back of pickups. He has slept under Christmas trees and in cribs with newborns.  He has been wrapped in baby blankets, cuddled by toddlers and brought great comfort to a family when he arrived at their house on the same day that their great-grandmother had died.  This year Jesus attended several birthday parties, was spotted at Washington College, and even attended a performance of "The Messiah"!  
The challenge of course, is for families to actually make the time to have Jesus stay overnight with them. But isn't that true for all of us??
Well, this year was no exception in providing some interesting material for my Christmas Eve sermon about traveling with Jesus ... here is my "meditation" from the 8 p.m. Christmas Eve service at PCC:
One of the many blessings of having a growing congregation is that we have so many more families with young children that it now takes two “Jesus-es” to travel throughout Advent so that every family (including some grandparent families with visiting grandchildren) get a chance to have Jesus spend the night with them.
It does stretch our theology a bit to talk about the plural form of the name Jesus – or to figure out which one is the “real Jesus” … I have finally settled on the “first Jesus” and “second Jesus” only to keep track of which one is which.
Our “first Jesus,” the one we placed in the crèche this evening, is the one that was first made for the church – designed by Nancy Adams and made by PCC member Tom Kerr, who sadly died this past year.  We’ve been using Tom’s nativity scene for many years now and I can’t help but remember Tom every time I see it.
Then several years ago, a second nativity scene was made for us by PCC member Bill Bayne – it’s the one on your left.  The Jesus from Bill’s nativity scene last year became our “second Jesus” – (our first “second Jesus”) and he has taken on that role again this year.
By the way, because some of you have asked me, I do not attempt to describe a theology of “2 Jesus-es” to the children who were here at the first service.  Some things are best left unsaid. 
But you may notice that tonight when Jesus arrived at the stable, we did not put the “second Jesus” into the nativity scene.
Well, that’s because we don’t know where he is.  Or not exactly.
It is challenging to coordinate with the schedules of 33 different families.  And sometimes there are bumps along the way.
Some of you may remember we ran into this situation last year.
The week before Christmas I missed communicating a change in Jesus’ schedule and he ended up on someone’s porch for two nights – but we found him right where he was supposed to be.  There was one night this past week where Jesus missed connecting with someone and spent the night at the church, which isn’t a bad place to be, I suppose.
Well, this past week we had another mis-communication … and I learned late Saturday evening that the second Jesus had not made his connections.
Fortunately, I always have a variety of resources about the Nativity on hand, so I was able to assemble a set of picture books, activity sheets, a journal and yes, a “third Jesus” so that Jesus could visit the last family on the list.
Which he did last night.  And the third Jesus came to church tonight.
Although that leaves us with the question:  so where is the second Jesus?
To the best of my knowledge …  although we didn’t plan it, he is locked up somewhere in Sudlersville Elementary School and will remain there until school re-opens on January 2.
And given all that has happened these past few weeks, those people who have heard this story all agree – Jesus being locked up in an elementary school seems like just the right place for him.
When I first gave the title “Letters from the Road” to this meditation it was a week ago, and I fully expected to be simply sharing some of the notes written by the families in the journal that travels with Jesus – all about the gifts they want to give Jesus (everything from stuffed animals to chocolate!) to the gifts they would like to receive from Jesus --- from patience to healing to hope.
But as we went through our “Jesus-crisis” over the weekend, I realized that there was also a different letter being written from the road – one that tells a different story … not of a Christmas that is perfect, with just the right gifts or the meal that is perfectly prepared and guests who arrive at the right place and on time, but it is a letter that tells of loss and sadness, of being misplaced and waiting, of longing and hope, not just in Connecticut, but in so many families across this congregation and our community and our world. 
Some of our neighbors have no home in which to sleep tonight.
Some others of us face this Christmas with a place empty at the table or around the tree.
Some of us wait with hope for new light and new life.
So I’m actually glad that Jesus didn’t find his way back to the manger this year.  Because it reminds me that Jesus cannot be kept safely in a box, any more than we can keep him in the manger.
He isn’t here because he is meant to be out there doing what he came here for in the first place.  
In Christ, God comes and keeps coming into our world – not in a perfect gift-wrapped box, to be kept under a tree. But the Savior of the world is born for the whole world.
He will meet us not just at the manger, but in our lives, in our world…
Not just here on Christmas Eve, or on a Sunday morning, but out there where we are always meant to see him, ever ready to be surprised at his coming.
This child who is Jesus the Christ, Savior, and Lord.
            The Word became flesh and dwelt among us, full of grace and truth.
            May our eyes be open to see him.  
Glory to God in the highest, and on earth, peace.  Amen.

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Fourth Sunday of Advent

As we begin the fourth Sunday of Advent, I want to share this prayer - sent to me by Pastor Mel (that is: Chaplain CPT Mary Ellison Baars, US ARMY), shared from the Young Clergy Women Project:


Let us pray... 

Holy One, 
The manger is still as we wait…
The hustling and bustling of the holidays forgotten for a moment as we draw ourselves to your bedside,
and with bated breath anticipate your in-breaking in our world. 
There are so many places where we desperately need 
your embodied hope
your Advent Peace
your Christmas Joy
your deep and ever present love.
Come to us Emmanuel, 
Come to us as community, as those we draw in close to us on these cold winter evenings, 
as family, as friends, as stars and sky, 
Come to us yet again…
Allow us to see the ways you give flesh to our deepest longings, 
Provide for our unspoken needs, 
Meet us in the darkness, in the stillness, 
Hold our souls in your infant hand
Breaking through in the form of a child,
overcoming the stillness, the darkness, the bitter cold
yet again. 
May we know your advent peace, your Christmas joy, your deep and ever present love, 
The manger is still as we wait…
Amen

With thanks to Jamie Lynn Haskins 
Copyright © 2012 The Young Clergy Women Project, All rights reserved.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

The Season of the Stars

PCC member Lanny Parks wrote this reflection today ... and with her permission I post it here.


      Today was the day we had planned to select our tree and hang the greens in our front hall. My vision was to then wrap the greens with strings of gold and silver stars; however, as I worked with them, the wires tangled and the stars fell off onto the dining room table and the chairs and the stairs under the greens until I realized that the vision I had was not going to come into being - at least not this year. 
So I got the broom and the dustpan and began sweeping up the fallen pine needles and the disconnected stars so I could throw them away. But as I looked at the dustpan full of debris, I could not help but think about the tragedy of yesterday, and I also realized that no one can simply discard fallen stars. They need to be gathered together and allowed to shine even though they are not where I had intended them to be, even though they were never going to produce the vision I had planned for them.
I carefully picked through the pile of my ‘ashes’, picked out all the stars, and scattered them on the wreath on the table in the front hall. As the sunlight caught them, they shone as brightly as I had hoped they would sparkle on my stairway, and they will continue to gleam when the candle in the wreath is lighted. 
This is the only way I can meaningfully manage to process the tragedy of yesterday and its painful aftermath. All of those fallen stars - whether they fell in Connecticut or Afghanistan or Iraq or Chicago or Colorado or Wisconsin - need to be salvaged, their light allowed to shine in some way that will show us the way through our darkness and make tomorrow brighter than ever, because this is the season of the stars and that is what stars do.

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Back on the Porch

Well, it's about time this "blog" got started again.  Welcome back, or welcome the first time to "Back Porch Notes."  It's been a while since anything was posted, but now about once a week I plan to post on this blog - reflections, an occasional sermon, thoughts from different people who are part of the extended PCC family. Here is the first post - reflections by Elder Susan Debnam at this past Tuesday's Session meeting:


The Rest of the Christmas storydevotion for Session meeting – 12/11/12
By Elder Susan Debnam 
(NOTE: newly-elected elders and deacons were present for the meeting)

I always sign up for December devotions because our hearts are filled with words and thoughts of  holly, wreaths, & cookies.  We can’t wait.  Doesn’t it sound wonderful?  But as I grow older I realize the Christmas story has a lot more in its message than a baby being born in a stable.

Let’s look at who was there –
·      Animals that smelled (they weren’t ready for a 4-H show)
·      Shepherds who were living in the fields (just a group of farmers)
·      Kings who had everything (maybe bankers or golfers)
·      Mary and Joseph – I surely would not pick them to give us the Wonderful Counselor

What does this say to us at PCC?  As we invite new members to the session how can we continue to love and care for each other when we are so different? We come with different backgrounds.  I think these new members are one of the best groups PCC has invited to session.  But there are those days when we all seem to work in our own corners and forget that our charge is to be Christ-like and lead this church in new ways with great JOY.  When this church was formed we didn’t want another church – we wanted a church that could be excited about doing God’s work.

Two weeks ago I watched farmers, boat captains, kids, carpenters, and ladies build a beautiful Christmas ledge. It warmed my heart. [NOTE: The “ledge” is above the chancel.] 

Last week, 22 members and friends traveled north to work on storm damage from Hurricane Sandy.  They came back with great stories and not just about the house they worked to repair, but with stories about each other.

I watched as the 911 team kicked in when Bill fell ill Sunday during worship.   

Two weeks ago our kids gave Clairvaux Farm families a Christmas gathering.

It is all wonderful! PCC has had a great start but 2013 has the opportunity to continue down this road finding new ways for PCC to do God’s work here and around the world with members and friends that are very different but believe in the same wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, everlasting Father and Prince of Peace!

Let these leaders look for hope everyday 

Look for hope in the faces of the people you meet.

Give hope to those you meet and help PCC be the Christ in the world.  Amen.